The emotional cost of being “special."
Contrary to popular belief, narcissistic people are not created by trauma—at least not the typical understanding of trauma. The elements that play a role in how some individuals develop a personality disorder don’t resemble the same type of struggle for survival as those who live in fear. It’s also different from the type of traumatization involved in the development of other personality disorders.
What’s common to observe in those with narcissistic traits is the constant, extreme, and unrealistic praise for outstanding characteristics of some sort, distinguishing themselves in something, especially if that something is appreciated by those around them. It could be beauty, intelligence, or even height and hair color if those are highly valued by their community.
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